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Family Agreement template

Use this short agreement to set clear device rules at home: where phones charge, when notifications stop, and how everyone talks about problems online. Keep it brief, print it, and review it together every three to six months.

Last reviewed: · Reviewed by Dr Alex J. Martin-Smith

Our Family Agreement

We share this home and these screens. This is what we agree, together.

What we will do together

  • We will eat at least one meal a day with no devices on the table.
  • We will charge our phones overnight in a shared room, not in bedrooms.
  • We will switch off notifications between bedtime and wake time.
  • We will tell each other when something online upset us or made us happy.

What our child agrees

  • I will only use the apps we have set up together.
  • I will tell a parent if someone asks for personal details, photos, or to meet.
  • I will tell a parent if I see something worrying, even if I feel nervous.
  • I will stick to agreed time limits and ask if I need a change.

What we, the parents, agree

  • We will explain why each rule exists.
  • We will not read messages without saying why.
  • We will put our own phones down when our child is talking to us.
  • We will review this agreement regularly and adjust what is not working.

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Use your browser print function to save this page as PDF for the fridge. If you want a Word version, copy this text into a `.docx` file and personalise names and times before printing.